The Elevator

Every morning I park my car, take an elevator down to the lobby of our building, then take another elevator up 12 floors to my office. I work at a large law firm so I inevitably ride up with someone I know. During my weekly rides I have come to realize that Emily Post may need to write an article or book on elevator etiquette (Ms. Post, if you already have- please forgive my ignorance, and could I have a copy?).

Where do you look? We have those tv screens showing the weather, but the tv is on the left side of the elevator, so if you are on the right side, you are out of luck. Do I look straight ahead, share an akward smile, should I look at my feet?

How to you respond to other folks' conversations? Example- I have on more than one occassion found myself laughing or giggling at a joke or story between other people sharing my daily ride. Should I pretend not to hear their office gossip? Should I apologize when a chuckle slips out?

If you are having a conversation how to you politely and quickly end it when you reach your floor?Ex. John Doe asks me my plans for the weekend when we stop on floor eleven and I don't have time to answer before having to get off at my floor (12)? Should I make everyone else wait while I finish telling him? Do I just smile and hop off, telling him to have a good day? STRESS! I would appreciate any suggestions.

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